Animals

One thought that has repeatedly come up for me recently is animals and the bonds we have with them. This unspoken connection is incredibly powerful and something we often downplay. It feels like there is an element of shame or embarrassment to acknowledge what a big part animals can play in our lives and how important our relationships with them are.

I’ve spoken to a few clients about losing animals. It’s almost as if there is a pressure from society to not fully process the loss. Like feelings of grief are only for other humans and an animal can be replaced. I don’t see why we feel the need to cover up our feelings towards animals. These connections are healthy and should be celebrated.

I think for some people having more connections with animals could be therapeutic and ease anxiety or stress. I’m thinking in particular about young people who struggle with the pressure of school and making friends or elderly people who are isolated. I know from our family dynamic that having an animal around helps regulate everyone, even if at times they demand our attention with a nip or scratch.

Our connection with animals reminds us of our own humanity and our responsibility to care for the environment around us. It encourages empathy and respect. Without them there would be a temptation to forget how we’re tied to every living thing and without all those things we can’t survive.

At times it feels like humans are selfish creatures with little consideration for the animals around us. Although the more time we spend with animals and nature, the more it feeds us. The relationship is collaborative and benefits everyone. It’s something that we should see as vital in our culture. A need to care for the things around us and in turn they will care for us.